Who Are You Grateful For

This week of Thanksgiving, take a moment to"good morning", or using their name. It's a job the
think about who makes it happen for you.value of which is only noted in its absence. Let the
The world is full of Temistocle Solears, Antonioreceptionist call in sick one day, and everyone's
Ghislanzonis, Henri Meilhacs, Jules Barbiers, Michaelday is upset as jobs are shuffled, shifts are
Carres, Giuseppe Giacosas, Luigi Illicas, Renatotaken, or a temp is called in who doesn't know
Semonis, Nicola Hayms, and Lorenzo da Pontes,anyone's name, extension or position. I've also
people we would all be grateful for if only weheard people tell me they bought only from a
knew their names.particular company because they just wanted to
Who on earth are these people? you ask.hear the receptionist's voice. Hmmm.
They were crucial partners in some of the mostI'm reminded of a sermon I heard one year. The
lasting super-projects on earth: operas.minister happened to be one of the most
Take Lorenzo da Ponte, for instance. It's arguable,prominent in the town I lived in. Yes, you would
but many would say the three greatest operassay he was a "very important person," and one
ever written were Mozart's "Le Nozze di Figaro,"who received a lot of recognition. I don't even
"Don Giovanni," and "Cosi fan tutte"; the only pointknow what the topic of the sermon was, I just
of contention being in what order, but always thetuned in when I heard something I needed to
Top Three.hear, as we often do. (Our brains are marvelous
Personally I prefer Verdi, but there's no questionat that!)
these are supreme works of art. Consider for a"The mayor's important," he was saying, " and so
moment, if you will, that the librettist for all threeis the lawyer, but what would catch your
of these operas was Lorenzo da Ponte. Mozartattention faster - if the mayor took a week off,
wrote the music, and Da Ponte wrote the words,or if your garbage collector did?" We all groaned
and usually, in the creation of an opera, the wordsand started squirming in our seats. Point taken.
are written first.Take some time today to think about the person
Among the operas Mozart wrote, these threewho types your letters, unfreezes your
stand out, the three that he co-authored with dacomputer, answers your phone, composes your
Ponte, a name most of us have never evenpleadings, bills your patients, hassles with the
heard. Likewise, the gentlemen named aboveinsurance company, updates your website, does
were librettists for Verdi, Bizet, Mozart, Strauss,your laundry, or simply makes you smile - and
Gounod, Handel, Donizetti and Puccini. Even ifthank them.
you're not an opera fan, I bet you've heard theirIt's a simple thing.
names, and also the names of their operas: Aida,You wonder why it isn't done more often.
Carmen, Madama Butterfly, Faust and DonExcuse me now, I must go thank the little
Giovanni, for instance. Wagner was the only operasweetheart who manages my apartment
composer who created both the music and thecomplex. At least I think that's her title. All I know
lyrics. All the others were collaborations for whichis her name is Janie and I just moved in, and she
librettists were crucial.has held my packages, told me how to get to the
Whatever your job, it's likely there's at least onepost office, forgiven me for being late with the
person who does work for you, who you countrent the first time (I thought I'd get a notice), let
on, who is always there for you, or who makesthe computer guys to set it up before I got here,
you look good. How long has it been since youhanded me a freshly-baked cookie when I passed
acknowledged them?through, made a few copies for me free ... the list
One of the most unsung heroes in anygoes on and on. I'm going to let her know how
organization is the receptionist. Everyone takesmuch I appreciate what she does?
them for granted. I've seen people walk past aNow, who's on your list? They're waiting to hear
receptionist day-after-day without even sayingfrom you.