Who Are You Grateful For

dy">"good morning", or using their name. It's a job the
This week of Thanksgiving, take a moment tovalue of which is only noted in its absence. Let the
think about who makes it happen for you.receptionist call in sick one day, and everyone's
The world is full of Temistocle Solears, Antonioday is upset as jobs are shuffled, shifts are
Ghislanzonis, Henri Meilhacs, Jules Barbiers, Michaeltaken, or a temp is called in who doesn't know
Carres, Giuseppe Giacosas, Luigi Illicas, Renatoanyone's name, extension or position. I've also
Semonis, Nicola Hayms, and Lorenzo da Pontes,heard people tell me they bought only from a
people we would all be grateful for if only weparticular company because they just wanted to
knew their names.hear the receptionist's voice. Hmmm.
Who on earth are these people? you ask.I'm reminded of a sermon I heard one year. The
They were crucial partners in some of the mostminister happened to be one of the most
lasting super-projects on earth: operas.prominent in the town I lived in. Yes, you would
Take Lorenzo da Ponte, for instance. It's arguable,say he was a "very important person," and one
but many would say the three greatest operaswho received a lot of recognition. I don't even
ever written were Mozart's "Le Nozze di Figaro,"know what the topic of the sermon was, I just
"Don Giovanni," and "Cosi fan tutte"; the only pointtuned in when I heard something I needed to
of contention being in what order, but always thehear, as we often do. (Our brains are marvelous
Top Three.at that!)
Personally I prefer Verdi, but there's no question"The mayor's important," he was saying, " and so
these are supreme works of art. Consider for ais the lawyer, but what would catch your
moment, if you will, that the librettist for all threeattention faster - if the mayor took a week off,
of these operas was Lorenzo da Ponte. Mozartor if your garbage collector did?" We all groaned
wrote the music, and Da Ponte wrote the words,and started squirming in our seats. Point taken.
and usually, in the creation of an opera, the wordsTake some time today to think about the person
are written first.who types your letters, unfreezes your
Among the operas Mozart wrote, these threecomputer, answers your phone, composes your
stand out, the three that he co-authored with dapleadings, bills your patients, hassles with the
Ponte, a name most of us have never eveninsurance company, updates your website, does
heard. Likewise, the gentlemen named aboveyour laundry, or simply makes you smile - and
were librettists for Verdi, Bizet, Mozart, Strauss,thank them.
Gounod, Handel, Donizetti and Puccini. Even ifIt's a simple thing.
you're not an opera fan, I bet you've heard theirYou wonder why it isn't done more often.
names, and also the names of their operas: Aida,Excuse me now, I must go thank the little
Carmen, Madama Butterfly, Faust and Donsweetheart who manages my apartment
Giovanni, for instance. Wagner was the only operacomplex. At least I think that's her title. All I know
composer who created both the music and theis her name is Janie and I just moved in, and she
lyrics. All the others were collaborations for whichhas held my packages, told me how to get to the
librettists were crucial.post office, forgiven me for being late with the
Whatever your job, it's likely there's at least onerent the first time (I thought I'd get a notice), let
person who does work for you, who you countthe computer guys to set it up before I got here,
on, who is always there for you, or who makeshanded me a freshly-baked cookie when I passed
you look good. How long has it been since youthrough, made a few copies for me free ... the list
acknowledged them?goes on and on. I'm going to let her know how
One of the most unsung heroes in anymuch I appreciate what she does?
organization is the receptionist. Everyone takesNow, who's on your list? They're waiting to hear
them for granted. I've seen people walk past afrom you.
receptionist day-after-day without even saying