| Before I talk about myself I would like to say | | | | people were looking at me because I was |
| something about my parents, starting with my | | | | probably the youngest person in the audience. |
| mother whom I would describe as a very nice | | | | All this excitement was making me anxious for |
| looking lady and supper mom who is never too | | | | the opera to start which fortunately we did not |
| tired to play with me. My mother like I, was born | | | | have to wait long for as it started on time with |
| in Warsaw, Poland where she works in a | | | | the overture. An overture is a musical piece with |
| company that does market research. | | | | no singing in which we hear the main themes or |
| As for my father, what I will say about him is | | | | motives that will be played during the opera. |
| that he is an elegant man who was born in New | | | | During the opera my father kept telling me things |
| York City (which is in the USA) and who enjoys | | | | about the opera, just like he promised to. He told |
| sharing his love of the arts with me. My father's | | | | me what the performers were doing as well as |
| mother was born in Buenos Aires which is in | | | | singing, which was of particular importance to me, |
| Argentina and his father was born in Genoa which | | | | because I did not understand Italian nor could I |
| is in Italy. My father speaks Polish, French, | | | | read in Polish, or at least not as fast as my |
| Spanish, Italian and English and writes books about | | | | mother who I could see was reading the |
| his hobbies which include listening to classical music | | | | translations that were being shown on the board |
| as well as going to the opera. | | | | above the stage in order to keep up with the |
| Now that I have described my parents I will now | | | | story. |
| say something about myself which is that I like | | | | Another thing my father did during the opera was |
| most children my age, go to school and enjoy | | | | point out to me which arias were his favorite, an |
| watching cartoons, playing video games on my | | | | aria being a song in an opera, something that a |
| computer, and going places with my mom and | | | | week before going to the opera I did not even |
| dad. The 3 of us often go to restaurants and to | | | | know. It was in a way funny how I had learned |
| department stores where we do a lot of | | | | to recognize every aria my father liked with the |
| shopping not only for the toys I play with but for | | | | help of the CD of "La Traviata" which my father |
| my clothes which my parents love buying me | | | | had bought and played for me at least 10 times |
| almost as much as I love getting. | | | | during the course of the previous week. |
| My parents are very different from each other | | | | Out of the whole evening one of the things that |
| but they also have many things in common, one | | | | pleased me the most apart from the music was |
| of them is that they both love me very much | | | | the stage which was decorated with splendor not |
| and only want the best for me. My parents and I | | | | only by ornate scenes but by performers who |
| live in a 2 bedroom apartment in downtown | | | | were so colorful in their costumes. |
| Warsaw which is on the same block as the school | | | | I can honestly say that I was enjoying this opera, |
| I go to. | | | | a lot more then I thought I would and my parents |
| Now that I have introduced you to both my | | | | could see that I was and I could tell by the way in |
| parents as well as myself, I would like to tell you | | | | which they looked at me then grinned at each |
| about the first time my parents and I went to | | | | other that this made them both very happy. |
| the opera which was 3 years ago and as you will | | | | The 4th act of "La Traviata takes place in a |
| see for yourselves by the end of this story it | | | | hospital, where Alfredo goes to visit Violeta who |
| changed my life forever. I must confess though | | | | is dying of some illness. It is in this scene were |
| that before going to the opera I was a little afraid | | | | Violeta and Alfredo tell each other how much |
| I would have trouble sitting through an entire | | | | they love one another, and just as they are doing |
| opera thinking it would be boring but however it | | | | this Alfredo's father enters Violeta's hospital room |
| was my father who made me feel more at ease | | | | to apologize to her for having asked him to break |
| by telling me if I did not like the opera I would not | | | | off her relationship with her sonbecause he did |
| have to go back, and that he would help me | | | | not consider her to be worthy of him, seeing now |
| enjoy the opera by explaining it to me as I was | | | | that he had misjudged her by thinking her not to |
| watching it. | | | | be a woman of class who truly loved his son. |
| The first opera my parents took me to see was | | | | After Alfredo's father finishes his apology Violeta |
| "La Traviata" by Verdi, which my father chose | | | | tells Alfredo just before expiring how happy she is |
| because it only lasts 2 hours (including | | | | to be back with him. |
| intermissions, making it not long for an opera) and | | | | At the end of the opera I could not help but cry |
| the music is easy to listen to as I found out after | | | | at such a sad ending which is something shared |
| my father went out and got me the highlights of | | | | by most operas. In all truthfulness what made |
| the music on CD. My father explained to me that | | | | tears come to my eyes was my conviction that |
| it is always more interesting to see an opera at | | | | Violeta had actually died. It was the sight of my |
| the theatre after having become familiar with the | | | | tears which indicated to my mother who figured |
| music. | | | | out right away what it was that was troubling me |
| My father also told me the synopsis of "La | | | | as she told me not to worry because the lady |
| Traviata", which is the story of Violeta, a | | | | who was playing Violeta had not really died but |
| dressmaker who falls in love with Alfredo, a man | | | | was only pretending. My father also seeing my |
| whose rich respected Parisian family can not | | | | distress added something which helped make my |
| accept her. | | | | tears stop flowing which was that we would be |
| The day we had been waiting on for two weeks | | | | seeing Violeta in a few minutes when she was |
| as my father got the tickets in advance finally | | | | due to come out to take her vows along with the |
| arrived and my mother, as is her habit on days | | | | rest of the cast, which is precisely what happened |
| which I would have to stay up late, made me | | | | after the curtain went up again. |
| take a nap from which she woke me at 17:30 so | | | | All the performers started coming out on stage, |
| I could take a bath and get dressed in one of my | | | | one at a time, beginning with the singers who had |
| favorite dresses which my father had bought me | | | | played the smaller parts working up to those |
| for such special occasions. | | | | whose parts had been bigger. Alfredo was second |
| I can still see myself and the way I looked so | | | | to last followed by Violeta whose return to the |
| grownup when standing in front of our full-length | | | | stage brought relief to my heart which had sunk |
| mirror all dressed up in my red dress, black shoes, | | | | after seeing her die. |
| and in my first long coat which was brown like | | | | With the reappearance of the Violeta the cast |
| the one my mother wore that evening. The | | | | was complete and standing on stage making it a |
| feeling I got at the sight that I was growing up | | | | grand display made more so by the audience |
| and ready to go out for the evening for the first | | | | which was giving them a standing ovation while |
| time was a stupendous one of almost being a | | | | tossing roses on stage. At that point I remember |
| young adult. | | | | asking my father if this is what happened after |
| In order to get to the opera on time which was | | | | every opera to which he replied "yes, this is what |
| scheduled to start at 19:00, we left our | | | | always happens". |
| apartment at 18:30 and with the evening being | | | | It was then that I saw the conductor get up on |
| such as it was we decided to walk to the opera | | | | stage and point to the members of the orchestra |
| house which is very close to our apartment. | | | | all of whom stood up while everybody in the |
| Our walk took us through "Saski Park" which I | | | | audience continued cheering and throwing roses |
| had never been fortunate enough till then to see | | | | on to the stage. The elation this majestic |
| at night with all its lights on which on that | | | | spectacle was providing was tremendous and I |
| particular evening were shinning on the white | | | | knew even then that this was going to be an |
| snow which had blanketed the park making it | | | | evening which I would never forget. |
| resemble a live fairy land from one of my many | | | | After exiting the opera we went to a near by |
| films for children. My father even commented | | | | restaurant where I had a small desert and apple |
| that the view reminded him of Central Park in | | | | juice as well as a chance to tell my parents who |
| New York leaving me, who had never been to | | | | were eager to know what I thought of the whole |
| New York to only imagine how beautiful Central | | | | evening. I told them how much the show had |
| Park must be if it was anything like this. | | | | delighted me. My father asked me what I had |
| It was on our way to the opera that I noticed | | | | thought of the Theater to which I replied that I |
| my mother, who was wearing a long purple dress | | | | was really impressed by the whole place and not |
| and my father who was wearing a black Tuxedo | | | | only by its size but by how it was all so nice. |
| with a white shirt and bow tie. Both my parents | | | | Then my mother asked me what I thought of |
| were elegantly dressed and were equally proud to | | | | the performance to which I replied that I had |
| be taking me to the opera for what would be the | | | | really liked the costumes specially Violeta's. |
| first of many similar outings. | | | | Now it was my father's turn to ask me if I had |
| I will never forget how impressed I was upon | | | | liked the singing, which I told him had been the |
| entering Poland's largest opera house, Teatr | | | | best part of the evening made even better by all |
| Narodowy (which in Polish means National | | | | that surrounded it. |
| Theatre) for the first time, the National Theatre | | | | After having finished what we ordered we simply |
| left me at awe by how truly grand it was with its | | | | hailed a cab home, were upon arrival I went |
| gigantic columns, large halls and red carpets. My | | | | straight to bed but not before hearing both my |
| impression was such that it could not go unnoticed | | | | parents tell me how honored they had felt by |
| by my father who before the start of the opera | | | | having taken me to the opera and how they |
| took me for a brief stroll through the theatre, to | | | | were hoping I would want to go back to the |
| show me the restaurants and the customs that | | | | opera with them at a later date something I also |
| had been worn in past operas which were now | | | | hoped to do. |
| being shown in display windows much like a | | | | I was so excited after the opera that I found it |
| museum. | | | | hard to fall asleep, it was the music in my head |
| It was while my father and I were on our way to | | | | which by bringing back so many images to my |
| our seats to join my mother that I looked all | | | | mind was keeping me awake. Many impressions, |
| around me and saw how people were so cheery | | | | maybe too many for one single evening to allow |
| and stylishly attired that I got the feeling that the | | | | me to concentrate on any one in particular. There |
| opera might not be as boring as I had originally | | | | was the image of the opera house, the stage and |
| thought. | | | | the performers, the costumes, the way the |
| Once my father and I were sitting with my | | | | audience was dressed, the applauding and roses |
| mother in our respective seats, waiting for the | | | | being tossed on stage after the performance and |
| opera to begin I started observing how people | | | | above all the opera itself which helped me decide |
| were looking at me with smiles of wonder on | | | | that I wanted to become an opera singer. |
| their faces, my mother told me that so many | | | | |