Don't Stop - Performing Keeps You Going

This year I was offered a small job teachingare desperate to try? This is where to start. Our
acting in a local theatre school for children. I didn'tnext productions, two, actually, are to try to raise
apply for it - it was just offered as a kind of amoney for the next big project. They are 'I Do, I
bi-product of what I have always done, which isDo' and 'Tomfoolery' - yes, neither of them
working with others of all ages in putting onSondheim, but the end result we hope will be
shows. I was delighted. And so, it turned out,funds to perform 'Follies'. Of course I will be
were the young people involved in the course.seeking funds from very source possible - just
I have done amateur stuff, acting, singing,went on a course to learn more skills to this end.
directing, writing for kids, making costume - all my'Follies' is a wonderful show which calls for actors
life. The first question I asked when enteringfrom about late teens to seventies. It has a big
school was 'Do you do plays?' When answered incast, with lots of cameo roles for women of all
the negative I offered to write one. The teacher,ages. Its cast reflects rather the well the fact
a sensitive and wonderful person, allowed me tothat far more women partake in amateur theatre
'help' her put on a small play. I loved it, the otherthan men. The reasons for this have been often
kids loved it and so did our doting parents whendiscussed. They cause arguments wherever you
they saw it. It really was a cut above yourgo in amateur theatre. Men work too hard to be
average Nativity Play. Or so they told me. At fiveable to do it, women need something to fill their
I believed what I was told.time, women are naturally better at singing etc.,
I went on doing this kind of thing through school,etc. The sad fact is that not so many men
into the youth club I volunteered at and into adultperform. I think it may have to do with the fact
life when I found a local group keen to use mythat when boys' voices break they get out of the
talents. Of course I volunteered there.habit of performing and take up sports and
But finally I had to start my own group. This wasactivities that fill their time. I think they may not
due to my love for (obsession for?) the musicalbe quite as outgoing as women. But we are not
of Stephen Sondheim. He is not much performedshort of men in our group, or in our area.
by amateurs in the UK. His shows a very difficultAnd the other lovely thing is that there are many
to do well: expensive to stage, technically verypeople in our town who are refusing to give up
demanding, and need a very good Musical Directortheir amateur performing just because they are
and band. I knew all this when I started up, butgetting on a bit. In one of the groups I am
went on, regardless, to form the group, calledassociated with I am among people much older
'Into Sondheim' (because we were) and put onthan myself, whose skill and enthusiasm is
'Into the Woods'. My wonderful son, a musicianboundless. I am not thinking of giving any of this
(bass player, keyboards and composer) workedup yet. Why should I with such great examples of
for almost nothing, producing a version of thecontinuing well into later life given me by my
band parts for five or six people (I cannot quitewonderful friends.
remember now) and a group of very talentedSo, are you still performing? Would you like to
people, at least half of whom could not readstart? Wherever you go there will be groups just
music) worked on the production. It was muchwaiting for you to contact them. And you don't
enjoyed by performers and audience alike.have to perform. You could always help make
Since then we have performed the same musicalscenery, costume, do fund-raising and publicity for
again (popular request), 'Assassins', Sunday in thethem. You will meet lots of lovely people, extend
Park with George' and 'Merrily We Roll Along'. Theyour friendship circle and keep on enjoying life. I
casts have included people of all ages andjust might give up in twenty years or so. But only
experience levels, and we have never turnedif they force me to. It is the source of pleasure
anyone down who wanted to have a go. Youand the provider of vibrant and wonderfully
don't read music? OK. we'll make tapes for you totalented company. No - I don't think I'm giving up
learn from. You've never been on the stage butany time soon.